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A Sad Story in Stone

Tombstone inscriptions can reveal sad tales of family miseries. The following gravestone from Kirkhampton, Cumberland, England, is a poignant example.

Joseph son of John and Sarah Hodgson of Holly Bush

d. 6 Nov 1864 aged 2 y 11

Also Hannah their dau d. 5 (obscrured) 1865 aged 17 m

Also son John d. 12 Oct 1869 aged 5 y

Also daughter Dorothy d. 5 Dec 1869

Also the above John Hodgson d. 20 Dec 1869 aged 52

Also daughter Margaret d. 31 Dec 1869 aged 4 y

Also above Mary Sarah d. 26 Feb 1877 aged 52

The parents and their five children all died in the short span of 13 years. Save for the single obscured date, the other six deaths took place during winter seasons. First their 3-year-old son Joseph was taken away. The following year, their 17 month infant Hannah was gone. About four years later, their son John, only five years old, died. Two months later, in December, another daughter of 17 months died. Then the father, aged 52, sucuumbed, followed 11 days later by 4 year old daughter Margaret. Another eight years passed when the mother passed on, also aged 52, ending the sad saga on this stone of a troubled family and their tough times.

Did the mother have the strengh to live on a little longer because of other children? And if so, did they survive to adulthood, continuing this Hodgson line another generation or more? Will we ever know? After the death of daughter Margaret, Mary did live another eights years and two months.

But what we do know from the above etchings is that a family of five infants and their father all died in the quick span of five years. The prevailing winds that blow across their resting ground may be echoing their distant cries of despair.

Take a moment to ponder this family and remember them. It is the very least we can do.